There are very few things in life that are harder than watching your beloved pet decline. Eventually, there comes a point where you realize it’s time to make decisions about their end of life care. These are concerns that come from a place of love, not giving up. There is no single right moment, and the circumstances are different for every pet and every family.
Making a palliative care plan with your vet will help you prioritize your pet’s comfort and relieve their pain.
When Does a Pet Need End of Life Care?
End of life care focuses on keeping pets comfortable and giving them a meaningful quality of life. For pets with a serious terminal illness, advanced age, or chronic conditions that no longer respond to treatment, palliative or hospice care may be necessary.
Signs of decline from age or disease can include:
- Not eating or drinking
- Losing weight uncontrollably
- Trouble standing, climbing stairs or walking
- Labored breathing or constant panting
- Accidents in the house or trouble using the litter box
- Hiding, pulling away or losing interest in favorite things
- Restlessness at night, whining, or other signs of pain
- Repeated vomiting or diarrhea
Dogs may be more vocal about their pain or discomfort. You might hear them growl, yelp or snap if they’re touched in a tender spot that hurts. The sounds they make when in pain are often deeper, longer or more intense than what you might have heard before.
Cats typically have a high pain tolerance, and tend to hide pain very well. Pay close attention to subtle changes in your cat’s behavior, like skipping the litter box, sitting hunched over, or grooming themselves less. These can be red flags that your cat is struggling.
How Do You Know When It’s Time?
Quality of life may be hard to define until you start recording your pet’s daily activities. Keep a simple “good days vs. bad days” calendar, even if it’s just a tally on the notes app of your phone, and review it regularly. List your pet’s top three favorite things and note whether they still can enjoy them. Note changes in appetite, behavior, and sleep habits. Recording these details can help your veterinarian advise you about next steps.
There’s no one right answer or tally that will tip the scales in deciding when end-of-life care should begin. Your veterinarian can help you measure your pet’s pain levels and quality of life, to establish a clear picture of their present state of health. Your vet can also help you decide what comes next and when.
Palliative and Hospice Care for Pets
Palliative care is dedicated to comfort, and it can be given to your pet as soon as a terminal diagnosis is made. Hospice care is comfort care for pets who are nearing the end of their life. Both include plans for pain management and medications that help with nausea, appetite, and hydration. Some pets need mobility support, like softer bedding, ramps, and harnesses.
When comfort can no longer be maintained, a peaceful goodbye through euthanasia is a compassionate and humane option. It’s completely painless, and your pet will not suffer.
Your vet can talk you through the timing, what the process looks like, and whether in-clinic or at-home service is possible. They can also assist you with after-care arrangements, including cremation, burial (where permitted), and mementoes like paw prints and other memorial keepsakes.
Making Your Pet’s Last Days Memorable
As always, your pet will be looking to you for comfort and guidance, and spending time together becomes even more important as time runs out. You might want to visit your pet’s favorite places, or take some time off so you can soak up every last moment.
It’s also important to include and support all the members of your family at this time of transition. Share information with children in age-appropriate ways and with sensitivity. Plan special last moments together, like a favorite treat or sunset walk (even if you have to carry them).
Compassionate Veterinary Care in Gilbert
We know these decisions are heartbreaking to even consider. But you don’t have to make guesses or go through this stage of life alone.
Our hospital will welcome you for a quality-of-life visit with your pet if they are experiencing any age- or illness-related problems that appear to be causing pain or distress. And even though it’s painful, having an end-of-life plan for your pet honors how important they are to you. Contact East Valley Animal Hospital with any concerns today. Your pet’s comfort is our first priority.
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